Sometimes when we are in a midst of an important discussion and suddenly a colleague or friend makes an important criticism for the astonishment he adds, " I am just saying", and than tries to distance himself from the thought he just mentioned. Isn't it something which we encounter everyday but still do not feel confident enough to have the take that about something being right or wrong ( just a personal opinion, must have come from some management school where no case has ever had any one solution but discussions), still we wonder how on earth this makes any sense? Is it lack of confidence, knowledge about the subject or some fantasy of thoughts flying in the dreams caught up in the talk or mere co incidence.
Well whatever it may seem it makes perfect sense that these thoughts should be worked on suggested with great care as i said before don't take it too personal, " I am just saying" !! :)
